My second favorite question is, "So when do you think you'll get married?"
Well....I didn't know I was psychic who can tell you the date already.
I get it. We have kids. You assume we'll get married.
We're doing things backwards.
Backwards is the new forwards people!
I feel like I handle the question well but really it's nobody's damn business!
I handle it much better than that last sentence, I swear.
If we get married, we want it to be a decision we make for ourselves, because we want to and not because we had kids. I feel like that would be a disservice to our children and to ourselves.
has become my mantra.
I get it, people (especially our families) mean well and they're just plain curious. I've made no secret of the fact that I want to get married someday....but today is not that day.
|For the record, I have NEVER tried on a wedding dress, this is clearly photoshopped :)|
We've had a lot to adjust to and learn over the last few years: we moved in together a little sooner than we wanted to, not only did we become first time parents, but we became parents to twins, and
And, as my aunt said over Christmas break, "You two are raising them as a family in a loving home, you guys get to do what you want."
And seriously, does being married make us any more of a family than we are right now?