There was G, a guy a year younger than me who ended up being Lockedup-az, (not while we were hanging out,) but also Drunk-az. I can't forget the time he invited me over to his house only to find him "cuddling" with some girl while his dad and the rest of their friends were drunk in the other room. And I'm sorry, but I don't think you should get drunk with your underage son in the first place, it's not a good look when you're the most drunk person in the room.
Then there was M, a guy I fell for quickly. At 24 to my 21 years old, you'd think he'd have his shit together better than I did, but his job was doing security at a local club on Friday and Saturday nights. He gave up his job at an airline, for what reason I'm still not sure. Working two jobs, I paid for everything and let his best friend stay in the tiny room I was renting for the summer. Three people in that room was not fun. He'd also come home from work and play video games until 6am and then be upset that I let him sleep until 5pm. Excuse me?! At 24, you are old enough to wake yo' az up and take care of yourself, Lazy-az! Plus, I was at work. At least he wasn't a Drunk-az, in fact, he didn't drink at all, but he sure could dance (my weakness.)
|Imagine these two guys living in my tiny room.|
|You'd think I'd have learned my lesson.|
|You can barely see R's face. I cropped him out of everything back in the day.|
Then there was C. He's the relationship I wrote about here. Fortunately, he actually treated me really well and he wasn't any of the Az-es. Unfortunately, I had done quite a bit more work on myself than he had on himself, so I was in a more mature, confident place than he was. We've remained friends, we're both in other relationships and very happy for each other. He was my turning point.
|The early days of B|
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